Sometimes I think I am inferior. But have you ever had the feeling when you think someone is stronger than you, and sfter sometime you realize that person is not as strong as you think he / she is. Then I feel, jeeh, I am not that bad either. Coz I ended up somwhere close to him / her. Awsum feeling to be proud of your self for not
giving up and hanging on.
Comparing ourselves with others have two sides. We should not over or under estimate ourselves. Doesn't hurt at all to look at another person and correct our own mistake. It doesn't. !! but people pointing fingers at others should realize that when you point one in the opponents direction the rest of the 4 fingers are towards you. Can you perform in an equal situation with the same circumstances that your victim was under ?? If yes no harm critizing or blasting. If you cannot peform when seas get rough for you, no point try being a hypocryte. Only... I say again only If you are very kind hearted person who aknowledges your mistake but wan't the other not to make the same, criticism is most welcome.
Another side to this is we don't run the race of life at the same pace. Really capable people are 'go getters'. There are poeple like that. One cannot expect everyone to fall in line just like that. Its dam tough. Some will. But not everybody. It should be chizzled in their hearts that tolerance and patience are essential for a harmonious relationship.
Actually there's a buddy of mine who is a bit like this. I'm gonna tell him in the face he should cool down. It'll be tough. But I'm sure we'll settle things in good way !! Thought I would consult the blogger world Intellectuality before that....lol....These are only my opinions. Critcisms and differring opinions are welcome !!
3 comments:
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ok, when u say ur friend is a go getter, what kind of a person is he exactly? i mean, there are some who are really mean and would put someone else down to win something for themselves which is really wrong. then there are some who just try way toooooooooo hard when they really need to take things at a slower pace...maybe a little more description about this person would really help.
sometimes telling people what you see and feel they're doing is not gonna help. I mean there are some ppl who are really adamant about what they do and very arrogant as well that they stick to what they believe and don't give a damn about what others say. i actually have a couple of friends who're go getters..and i actually tried telling one of them that the needs to take things a little easy..but he just listened to me and gave me the impression that he's not going to change anything about himself. he felt more comfortable just being himself. and if he took things at a slower pace, he'd feel guilty that he didn't do enough.....
man, what a world, huh? and yes, feeling proud of one's self is indeed one of the mos remarkable feelings ever..:) it's self satisfaction i guess..:)
I think to critisize the actions/prejudices of others you must first be free those actions/prejudices yourself. Otherwise you are just a hypocrite and whatever you may say (even though with the best of intentions) wont be very effective as everyone will see that you dont practise what you preach.
Critisizing someone else is something I try to avoid as much as possible.However constructive its often perceived negatively and that can lead to a lot of unpleasentness.
I think advising someone that harmonious relationships need tolerance isnt really critisizing them. its somehting they should realise anyway but if hes imposing on others then yes, you should probably say something. Keep it positive though :)
Lady : Thanx 4 d advise....Oh no he's a great guy. not mean. after all he made me change some of my foolish ways. Just that want him to know this point. Don't want him 2 get into troble. das all !! sorta guy 2 whom if u prove ur point its taken and chizzled in the brain.
Venus Thanx !! u r right. gotta xplain it 2 him. sure we'll settle things even if gets a bit heated. its not the 1st time.
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